Can a husband and wife talked to people, just talk or vent?
Clearly shari'ah we fortify his people from unlawful acts such as adultery,
ولا تقربوا الزنا إنه كان فاحشة وساء سبيلا
"And do not approach adultery; in fact adultery is a heinous act. And an evil way. "(QS. Al-Isra ': 32)
Shaykh As-Sa'di brought in sya'irnya temple,
وسائل الأمور كالمقاصد
واحكم بهذا الحكم للزوائد
Intermediary same law with the law of interest
Hukumilah by law for such other additional
Therefore, intermediaries toward adultery as alone together was forbidden.
From 'Abdullah bin' Amr ibn Rabi'a ie, from his father, the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said,
ألا لا يخلون رجل بامرأة لا تحل له, فإن ثالثهما الشيطان, إلا محرم
"Let not a man alone with a woman who is not lawful for him because actually syaithan was the third between the two of them together unless mahram." (HR. Ahmad no. 15734. Shoaib Shaikh Al Arnauth said this hadeeth saheeh lighairihi)
Among the forms alone together (aka: seclusion) is chatting with the opposite sex, including shaped vent with another woman's husband.
What are the dangers?
There is some danger of a husband talked to people, either directly or through online media such as WhatsApp and Facebook. Here are eight of the comments we collected from our status on FB, today, 7 Rabi 'Awwal 1437 H (19-12-2015). We strain opinion considered attractive.
Suya Macell: Usually tends to occur perselingkungan chaplain. Because men pedestal vent suddenly so god help for these mothers. And ultimately what happens is immoral, Ustadz. In Bondowoso here already a lot happening.
Peni Nur Aisyah: I think it is inappropriate, if I had to confide in family issues I choose to a friend sisters who are wise, or to the competent cleric. Especially if confidante alone in your inbox or WhatsApp, or via SMS it will be very easy to open the way for Shaytaan to make a "stray".
Dad Zahwa: Danger kholwat the chaplain, opened the family disgrace to the wrong people, there will be votes on him that men who dicurhati better than her husband, talbis devil (the cunning of Satan, pen.)
Anik Murlina: It's inappropriate. It is the earliest onset of infidelity that will we as women will be harmed. A wife should be able to save all the problems that occurred in the household, not a fling.
Sumar Hilmikalila: It's early doors adultery, do not deserve a wife chatting vent the same husband. It's called treasonous.
Susiati Naya: How mo deserve husband was the mother with the tu, not mahram. What else would be shared household problem that looks even slander.
Nuha Abu priyadi: It is extremely inappropriate chaplain. Therefore: (1) dismantle the family disgrace, (2) open up gaps demons, (3) the door to sin and immorality. Moreover, do frequent and continuous, very well ... Danger !!
Kharis Nizar: Danger cleric, CURHAT so CURHOT, it said Ustadz Zainal Abidin.
May God keep us from various unlawful acts and keep us from adultery and things that bring in adultery. Wallahu waliyyut taufiq was sadaad.