How To Treat A Barren Wife


There are women who for years have not destined to have offspring. And she missed once in the presence of a baby in the house.

When God is not the baby is present in our midst today, do not worry Allah has prepared its place in heaven. ,
From Abu Sa'id Al-Khudri radi 'anhu, he said that the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam said,
المؤمن إذا اشتهى ​​الولد في الجنة كان حمله ووضعه وسنه في ساعة, كما يشتهي
"A believer that when a wanted child (but do not get it), in heaven he would conceived him, feed him and grew up in an instant, as he wanted to." (HR. Tirmidhi, no. 2563; Ibn Majah, no. 4338. Al- Hafiz Abu Tahir said that this sanad hasan hadeeth).

From the above hadith, many scholars have argued that those who want a child but did not get it in the world, then he will get it in heaven.

While other scholars argue that in heaven there is a jima '(sexual intercourse), but does not produce children or descendants. This is the opinion narrated from Thawus, Mujahid and Ibrahim An-Nakha'i.
Evidence of the above second opinion was narrated from Abu Razin Al-Uqailiy radi 'anhu, from the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam, he said,
الصالحات للصالحين تلذونهن مثل لذاتكم في الدنيا, ويلذذن بكم, غير أن لا توالد
"Women righteous to men righteous in heaven would feel the delicacy of each other as they feel in the world. The women are going to have fun with you guys. But they did not have children. "(HR. Ahmad, 4: 13. Shoaib Al-Arnauth saying that the sanad of this hadith dha'if because musalsal bil mahajahil)

Ibn al-Qayyim as to explain, "Paradise is not a country to produce offspring. Heaven is a country that remain and abide. People who are in heaven are not dying nor produces offspring to replace the dead ones. "(Haadi Al-Dead, 1: 173)

But the way a good compromise of the two propositions appear above contradictions are as claimed by Al-Munawi follows.

Al-Munawi explained in Faidh Al-Qadir (6: 335) that, "The hadith does not contradict the hadith Al-Uqaili with sanad authentic" Verily in Paradise there was no child. "Therefore, for people who do not want it, he will not bear children. However, if somebody wants a child it will be as described in the Hadith. "

Because it is in heaven, someone will get what he wants, including the desire to have children. In verse mentioned,
وفيها ما تشتهيه الأنفس وتلذ الأعين وأنتم فيها خالدون
"And in heaven there is all that is desired by the liver and savory (seen) the eyes and to dwell therein." (QS. Az-Zukhruf: 71)

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