Sexual relations between husband and wife is not forbidden to learn on Islam. However, nor exempt such things like an animal associated with each other.
Sex is good and right, which does not violate the law in addition to a peak of marital harmony and reinforcing feelings of love and affection between the two then also included a worship beside Allah, as words of the Prophet,
"..and Sexual intercourse with the wife also alms. They asked, 'O Messenger of Allah, what if we channel the passion between biological (intercourse) also get a reward?' He replied, 'After all, if he was channeling the illicit sin ?, so too when he channeled on the lawful, then he also will get the reward. "(HR. Muslim)
Islam views sex as moderate as characteristic of Islam itself. He could not be removed just so that humans can do freely and also not tightened such that it becomes a tedious job.
Questions about Jima 'by way of oral sex has always been excellent for this. Whether or not taboo. Did you know that in Islam before sex, we are encouraged to do foreplay (mula'abah) or foreplay?
It is recommended that sexual relations that do not resemble sexual intercourse carried by animals. Without heating. So expect no party is hurt. And it is expected the two sides to be able to enjoy it. One form of foreplay in the knowledge that modern sexuality had oral sex, or kissing farj (pubic) a couple good wife to her husband, or vice versa. And more 'extreme' again is by oral sex with a 69 position.
So how do we address it?
The scholars differed in addressing these problems (oral sex). There are allowed, but there are makruh and inclined to forbid it.
Allowed by terms
Permissible because basically everything is allowed (permissible) unless there is the argument against it. And indeed it can not be judged as an act that is unlawful, in the absence of explicit arguments that forbid it.
As with sexual intercourse (intercourse) until orgasm is permissible because it is the peak of pleasure, then it is permissible pleasures also obtained (although not reach orgasm) is flattery cooed, hugging, kissing to oral makes enjoying each other husband and wife.
Allah in the Qur'an says:
"Wives is (like) the land where you grow crops, then go to your land where farming-tanammu that how ye will. and serve (good deeds) for yourselves, and fear Allah, and know that ye are to meet Him. and give good tidings those who believe. "(QS. Al Baqoroh: 223)
However, if oral sex turned out to have a proven impact danger for the couple, as examples of oral sex that resulted in the pairs ill or stricken danger (perhaps because it is dirty because of their unclean or any liquid that smells out of farj) then it will enter the category prohibitions and should not be do.
2. Makruh and leaning on a ban.
Argue about the ban on oral sex and included in that category is the position of 69 (sorry, the position where the pair facing each other but in opposite directions of the head) because it violates the nature and human nature as a servant by reasonable minds a higher degree than animals. Because humans are given orally to read the Quran and speak a good word, it is not appropriate when used to kiss 'something' that can issue unclean (urination, menstruation, madzi etc.)
Of course we will never find a pair of the animals that do it, but it turns out humans are many who even likes and becoming a popular way among people today.
This may occur due to the influence of western society life. Western society is a liberal society (completely free) included in sexual affairs. The end goal is simply the satisfaction they are looking for, in this case an orgasm. If warming in Islam is to be ready to enter farj wife farj husband, then the West does not require this path. If the rectum included women / men or mouth women / men can be achieved satisfaction, then it would be done. That is why the position of 69 the choice of western society, especially gays and lesbians.
If in the course of everyday life we are forbidden to be tasyabuh (bandwagon), then especially in matters of sexual intercourse in which there Islam upholds human nature by reasonable minds, of course forbidden anyway to bertasyabuh with them. Wallahua'lam
Conclusion:
How to oral sex and also including position 69 is essentially allowed to be. However, although it is permissible, but more and more good afdhol abandoned.
Basically, a husband and wife should have fun with each other to enjoy the whole body of one another unless there is the argument against it. But such actions are not preferred (makruh) because there is no other way better and fun.
On the other hand if oral sex carries the impact of hazards for the couple, then it should be withdrawn because remember the Apostle sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam once said:
لا ضرر ولا ضرار
"There should not start giving bad effects (mudhorot) on others, as well as him." (HR. Ibn Majah no. 2340, Ad Daruquthni 3: 77, Al Baihaqi 6: 69, Al Hakim 2: 66. Said Shaykh Al Albani this hadith is authentic).
By: Abu Syauqie Al Mujaddid (Caregiver Solutions Islam and Islamization)
Articles: www.solusiislam.com
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